All things take their time, especially if we are in a hurry!
So don't watch the pot, let the water in it warm up, heat up,
boil at its own pace! And it depends on what we want to do
to stop this process from cold to boil! Sometimes we need
the water in the pot to remain just right for the use we want.
As time is the essential element in all that we want to do
and achieve, it's fair to suggest to ourselves to go easy...
Don't rush the process in place, let it run its course and all
will be fine, just the way we want it to be! So it is between
people who are friends. Remain at ease and let the other
live their own life, without pressure and with detachment
in practice. Eventually the other person will come around
looking for you, instead of vice versa. For we can try too
hard to get what we want when we want it. Be it just
a simple smile or hug or a walk anywhere. Loving the other
person means also to let the other be. To let the other live
at a pace that suits that particular daily routine. Not to
interfere and when this happens, do our own things and be
content! Happiness with ourselves is the key. To love yourself
just as much if not more than you love the other! Remain
patient and joyful each day regardless of what expectations
you have. It's like closing the door of a small door and opening
up an even bigger one. To let whatever happens for the better
enter into your life. Each one then gains in freedom and love!
Then you don't need to watch the pot boil!
